Learned it da hard way...There IS comfort in da truth!

Well i have been writing abt nothing important on my blog lately...its jst dat nothing really attached me and made me think and want to write...life has been jst goin on in a way i am not used to...simply cuz i have no time to get connected to da "outside world"!...i know nothing beside wats goin on in skool and with my frnds..more than this...dont expect me to know anything!
but then jst a couple of mins ago i was having this conversation with nada...she had a personal msg on her account saying "there's no comfort in da truth"...and i was jst thinking abt that... let me jst copy paste this part of da conversation:

It's REAL LOVE dat u donno abt says:
well i believe there is comfort in da truth
Nada says:
no..the comfort is always in ur dreams and wishes
It's REAL LOVE dat u donno abt says:
no...its better than to live in a world of ur dreams and hit to reality marra wa7da
It's REAL LOVE dat u donno abt says:
to knw da truth of any situation is always da best
Nada says:
yea..a world of ur dreams is a comfortable world, bt it is always deceiving u
Nada says:
mayb bcoz u hit to reality marra wa7da..mayb that's y it's nt comfortable..
It's REAL LOVE dat u donno abt says:
yeah thats why its always better to kw da truth
It's REAL LOVE dat u donno abt says:
its at least a bit comforting than hittin back to it suddenly
Nada says:
u'r right of course..it stupid to rely on dreams akid..
It's REAL LOVE dat u donno abt says:
yeah and beside dathow long can u live in a dream?
It's REAL LOVE dat u donno abt says:
it will never be forever
It's REAL LOVE dat u donno abt says:
da truth mite be hard but if u get ud to it u will be thankful dat u at least knw it
Nada says:
yea..u'r right..dreams shouldn't b a basic..bt without them one wdn't b able to have hope in life
It's REAL LOVE dat u donno abt says:
yeah dats right i agree
It's REAL LOVE dat u donno abt says:
a person shud have dreams but t live in them
Nada says:
and the smartest of us r those who try to make their lives look like their dreams..of course nt exactly..bt nearly
It's REAL LOVE dat u donno abt says:
yeah
Nada says:
akid i dont mean live the dreams y3ni..i mean achieve their wishes in their dreams
It's REAL LOVE dat u donno abt says:
yeah i understand

So u see we both came to da same conclusion...da chat with nada jst reminded me of several ppl who insisted on hiding da truth from me...thinking it will be more comforting..and when it was hightime to reveal da truth...and i found everything out...i was devastated!!!!!
why cant some ppl not understand it is better to say da whole truth jst da time when it is supposed to be said?!
I learned it da hard way but i at least knw it now....it is always better to knw da truth then living jst in dreams that ppl faked for u!
so for da ppl who still didnt figure that out...plz try to be more honest and frank...it will prevent much more trouble!